Monday, July 05, 2010

What is the goal?


I'm sure we have all seen the bumper sticker "COEXIST". For some it has been a positive message of peace and harmony. For others, it has been one of controversy, stirring up feelings of superiority and defiance. I used to like the sticker, myself. I believed it's message of tolerance and unity was one worth striving for. But then I started thinking about it more deeply. I remember watching some Zombie movies and what I found attracted me to the genre was this glaring commentary on the world and how we as humans often simply exist next to one another on a surface level but are really crying out for something real, something we can feel,
to feel alive. This brought me back to this popular bumper sticker. What is the goal? What is the message? I know on a surface level I would aggree that it is probably not a good thing to kill someone else because of their beliefs. I also aggree that tolerance and open-mindedness are good and positive qualities. But is that the underlying goal? I had a discussion with a friend of mine the other night on this very topic. It was good because we both disaggreed, but it allowed easch of us to see points that we hadn't considered before. But I had to return to my main point. What is the goal? For me, it has to be love. Love is what changes and shapes our lives. It is what brings us freedom and belonging. Love is the cornerstone to all of the fore-mentioned qualities above and is also the essence of humanity. So consider love and co-existence. After much contemplation, I came across the idea that love requires co-existence, but co-existence does not require love. In other words, co-existence is a natural product of true love. When one loves, they desire to not only co-exist with others, but invest in their lives. However, like the example of zombies, One can co-exist with another without any thought of care or love for that other person. I realize that I may be over-analyzing this thing, but I think it is important to ask what is the real goal? Is it peace , Is it harmony? because these things are also products of love but are certainly not of co-existence. Zombies have no problem tolerating one another, co-existing with each other, but I think we would all aggree that this type of life is far from peaceful or harmonious. Perhaps why we like this message so much it due to it's laziness. It's easy. To simply co-exist takes no effort whatsoever. But to love, to care, well , that's a bitch sometimes. But though it isn't a victory march, it is a cold and a broken Hallelujah!! So my hope is that we stop focusing on the by-products and begin dwelling on the foundation again. Let's dwell on the message of love and allow co-existence and tolerance to flow out of it, naturally. Please, let me know your thoughts. I look forward to reading all prudent comments that Don't include a link to the world of Asian porn. Take care.

9 Comments:

Blogger herringmeister said...

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9:55 AM  
Blogger herringmeister said...

Brent. As you know, I too have been bothered by the underlying message of this bumper sticker. It seems to me that what is really being said is, “All beliefs held by others are equally false and need to be brought into agreement with my own personal beliefs and view of tolerance. If you believe like I do, then I can tolerate you, but if you don’t, than your beliefs are evil and should be rejected by all.” Tolerance presupposes truth and error and describes the ability of the “true” to still function truly in unison with the “erroneous”. I believe it Frank Beckwith who coined the term, “Passive Aggressive Tyranny” (if it wasn’t, then please show me tolerance in my error) as it applies to the pretended neutrality behind this bumper sicker's very judgmental message. I like your zombie analogy. I think it paints a very accurate picture of what is going on. Love needs to be the lubricant that allows true tolerance to overcome the friction of difference. Love has to be in place and operating before tolerance can exist. My question for you is, “What is the foundation for the required sort of love that we are talking about?”

10:03 AM  
Blogger John Knight said...

You're absolutely right about love requiring co-existence but not the other way around. And while I agree that love is the important part, I feel like we'd find it just as easy to take shots at a bumper sticker that says something so seemingly trite as "Love Everyone" (see Sebastopol for details). I guess in the end, it's a bumper sticker, and that's a large part of the problem - it says nothing as to how an individual actually lives.

11:02 PM  
Blogger عليا said...

hi,Brent,I'm from Egypt,this my first time i had a blog ,so I'm sorry i didn't understand many of the words you've wrote,but i understand the point of your post,of course you're right we need love and tolerance between us ,i think by them we can stop war all over the world cause we have to love each other as human,cause all of us have the right in life.

3:21 PM  
Blogger عليا said...

hi,Brent,I'm from Egypt,this my first time i had a blog ,so I'm sorry i didn't understand many of the words you've wrote,but i understand the point of your post,of course you're right we need love and tolerance between us ,i think by them we can stop war all over the world cause we have to love each other as human,cause all of us have the right in life.

3:23 PM  
Blogger D said...

I liked how you said that we should have a foundation. I think people only see the surface of things now...

And I agree that it is better to love than just to coexist but it's hard for people who have beliefs that goes against caring for people who don't have the same beliefs that they do. It's not that they don't get it but they just don't believe in it. So it's easier to say coexist than to say love one another.

I'm sorry. I don't know if I explained it correctly. LOL.

just tell me if i did or didn't and I'll try to re-explain it.

7:24 PM  
Anonymous Gengis Khan said...

I love your last sentence, lool

3:59 AM  
Blogger Simon O'Corra said...

I love your co-exist post, I believe that love is the cornerstone of co-existence and it is a lack of love that breeds division

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